Well before we go into the details, just
remember this thing that human being is so intellectual that they can really
distinguish what is good or bad. So, try to work from your mind use your
intelligence.
All details are
from Book 1 Corithians:
Well, according to this book if someone have that power to self-control themselves
they can remain virgin or not married throughout their life and can be in the
love of Christ Jesus in short if they want to dedicate their whole life in the
service of Jesus they can do so.
On the
other hand, if someone don’t have that sort of self-control inside them then
they can marry. As stated in 1 Corithians 7:9 that for married life is better
than the burning of desire.
So, to marry or not to marry depends on one desire and need
because god doesn’t force its children to do something which they cannot do.
And if something which is given by the god which is difficult for the people to
do it, then if that person, if trying hard to achieve, then ultimately some
kind of power will get inherit in that person, so that he or she can
successfully achieve that.
So,
things to remember: –
First, you need to ask yourself whether you want to marry
or not, and if yes then you need to know to whom you want to marry? and the
question arises which is the most important things in life not only for some
people but to all the people who are unmarried.
So according to the 1
Corinthians which is a part of Bible:
The husband and wife should not be untrue in their relation
they should not leave one another and go somewhere and get in relationship with
someone else. It is not only bad physically but emotionally too, because by
doing this we are hurting our inner self.
See the most important part is having self-control over
yourself because whether you are married or not it doesn’t matter unless you
know how to control over your senses which is most important spiritually.
Basically, marrying girl of your own religion marrying girl of your own religion or marrying a
man of your religion is good because when belief is the same then thinking will
have too some compatibility, which is good for the life unless if we have some
different opinion then it can make a marriage life hell on earth.
The husband and wife should be following disciplines in
their married life, and should be nice to each other having a full control over
their desire because if desire gets into your mind then it can cause your married
life hell too, so be in love with god because if you practice love then love
controls you.
Understand in married life, see it is the term mostly used
by every empirical person, because they know, they have seen this world, they
are more experienced than any other, if there is understanding then there will
be no problem in your life.
If you think that you can suggest some measures then please
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